Relationships, relationships, and what can i say about relationships.
Every day, I have see everyone that I know have the partner in the crime, loving, honesty, funny, and amazing person to get love from. Every day, I see different people who isn't in relationship have been changing a lot toward themselves. Today, I have been thinking about this a whole lot. I am ready to share few thoughts with you.
1. IT SUCKS.
2. A whole lot of work
3. Communicaiton
4. Honesty
5. Loyalty
6. Acceptance
1. Why is it sucks? Is it me? Is it him? Is it her? First of all, it sucks because i missed the natural way of meeting someone else instead of everything's online. Online basically killed our time, our missed out adventures out there. I love the natural way, meeting someone new which could be introduced from friends, family, and possibly from work. Speed dating was much fun and I sometimes wonder if it's worth to try in this brand new generation. Honestly, everything's online and it's ruined our social skills, our manners, and our approach to the person that we dying want to talk to. So yep, it's pretty much sucks.
2. It's a whole ass work because it takes TWO, not ONE person to do this both ways. If you expect me to do everything by myself, forget it. You're on your own, mister/ma'am. If you think I am easy person, go find much easier person to fuck with. I am telling you, it takes TWO people to get know each other effectively.
3. Everyone thinks it's easy to communication especially with different languages, different styles and something new to learn. For me, it's the key and I am DeafBlind doesn't mean that you don't have to say, "oh i didn't know any sign language", "can you read my lips", and the whole bullshit. Come on, this is more than 21st century! Learn and grow up a whole shit. With me, you're going to learn a whole new language--two different languages actually. It will take a while and no it's not overnight. If you have a lot of patience, starting to grow up to like more then eventually love, then you are in right spot.
4. Everyone lies right? Even the white lies? Sure, I do lie sometimes but i learned being honesty is the best policy. I hate it when someone goes on eggshell around me and afraid to tell me the truth. Just because I am DeafBlind doesn't mean that you should be afraid to tell me the truth. I would love to hear what you have to say or express out your feelings toward me. Just be man up and speak your mind. If you can't then you're not the one for me. Everyone have their different ways of discover which is the truth and which isn't. The point is that everyone hates liars.
5. Hell, everyone lost the meaning of loyalty. Let me refresh your mind, Loyalty is "the state or quality of being loyal; faithfulness to commitments or obligations". Now that's the fact because everyone has been cheating on their partners and went behind their backs! What's wrong with y'all? Why did you do that to the ones that you love and spend the life with? What for? Just to get fresh meat? Totally not cool. I am extremely loyal when it comes to relationship because I would feel guilty if I did cheat or do something wrong behind your back. I know it's hard to find a person who's loyalty but hell, think about it. Everyone cheats in this generation! Just speaking my opinion, remember.
6. Everyone have to learn how to accept the flaws from their partners because you do have flaws that your partner would eventually have to accept too. I mean, I am DeafBlind and I rather to have someone who fully accept my identity because I already did and already am. If you can't accept me being Samantha then there's something wrong with you.
These six keys that I believe are important in the relationship. Remember they are my perspective and my feelings of what a relationship should have. Because they're important keys to maintain and make your partner happy and the important of all, make yourself happy too. If you are happy, if your partner is happy, then the whole house is happier!
Until next time...if you do touch (see) me, I will give you a hug. Good night my love ones.
Samantha
